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Author Spotlight"Imagine having changed the course of history.  Sonia Pressman Fuentes. . . , one of the founders of the National Organization for Women (NOW) along with Betty Friedan and others, actually did . . . Her story could have been told in anger or bitterness, but that's not Fuentes' personal, or literary, style.

"It's my way of looking at life," she says.  "My life wasn't funny.  I just tell it that way."

-- Miami Magazine, Fall 2000
reviewing Fuentes' popular memoir,

Eat First -- You Don't Know What They'll Give You

In its October 2005 newsletter, Xlibris, the publisher of Eat First--You Don't Know What They'll Give You, congratulated Sonia Pressman Fuentes for being "[o]ne of the most successful Xlibris authors ever."

  • A child who emigrated from Nazi Germany, arriving in New York with her parents and brother in 1934.
  • First woman attorney in the Office of the General Counsel at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC).
  • Co-founder of the National Organization for Women (NOW) and Federally Employed Women (FEW).
  • Speaker on women's rights issues before audiences in the U.S., Europe and Asia.
  • Included in What Happened to the Children Who Fled Nazi Persecution (2006), Feminists Who Changed America, 1963-1975 (2006) and Women of Achievement in Maryland History (2002).
  • Author of the memoir: Eat First -- You Don't Know What They'll Give You, The Adventures of an Immigrant Family and Their Feminist Daughter.

Sonia Pressman Fuentes graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Cornell University in 1950 and first in her class at the University of Miami School of Law in 1957. She had a 36-year career as an attorney and executive with the federal government and national corporations. She drafted many of the EEOC's initial landmark guidelines and decisions. In addition to being one of the founders of NOW, she was also a founder of the Women's Equity Action League (WEAL) and Federally Employed Women (FEW).

Currently, she serves on the advisory committees of the Veteran Feminists of America (VFA) and the Longboat Key Education Center in Longboat Key, FL.

On October 10, 1999, Ms. Fuentes was one of four recipients of the 1999 Women at Work Award given by Wider Opportunities for Women (WOW).  WOW, a nationwide organization based in Washington, DC, has programs to help women and their families achieve economic self-sufficiency.  Fuentes received the award for her commitment to women's issues and her leadership in the fields of law and business.  Prior awardees include Glenn Close, Jane Fonda, Katie Couric, and Hillary Rodham Clinton.

"I walk in the footprints of Sonia Pressman Fuentes."
--Patricia Ireland, then-president, NOW

"Evoking a tear here and a chuckle there, with her heart-warming wit and wisdom, Sonia Pressman Fuentes recounts the story of a Jewish family, her family, from her grandparents' origin in a shtettl in Poland right through her own career as a founder of NOW and beyond."  --Gus Tyler, columnist, contributing editor, The Forward

"Sonia Pressman Fuentes played a major role in the birth of the new women's movement and her tales of its early days will delight historians and those who are curious about the beginnings of this great social movement. Fuentes is a born story-teller, with a particular knack for seeing the humorous aspects of her life." --Dr. Bernice Sandler, Senior Scholar, Women's Research and Education Institute

"I referred to you just the other day (as I frequently do) as one of the `great, unsung heroes' of the women's and civil rights movements.  You single-handedly persuaded Roosevelt, Edelsberg, me and others to take sex discrimination seriously which, without you, we would not have done." --Charles T. Duncan, former General Counsel, EEOC; former Corporation Counsel of the District of Columbia; former Dean, Howard University School of Law

"As I really realized how bad off women were by the mid-70's, I was appalled, . . . . The champion of women at that time...was Sonia Pressman. She fought the airlines. She fought for the airline stewardesses...She was an EEOC attorney...But Sunny' Pressman...was small and she was dynamic, and don't get in her way. She was one of the gentlest souls you'd ever want to meet, but she was as tough as nails. She took on the airlines and the cause of the flight attendants. Sunny' Pressman is almost single-handedly responsible for flight attendants being married, for their being over 30 and working." -- Dorothy Howze, Making a Right a Reality: An Oral History of the Early Years of the EEOC, 1965-72 (EEOC, 1990).

Timeline of Some of Sonia Pressman Fuentes' (SPF) Activities Through Nov. 4, 2004


Profile of 15-year-old feminist activist, Minna Stein, in the Sarasota Herald-Tribune on May 15, 2016, which Sonia arranged.

In early 2016, Sonia received an email from a Sarasota woman of 15, Minnah Stein, who'd learned about Sonia from the friend of a friend. Minna wrote that she couldn't believe Sonia was in Sarasota where she lived and wanted to meet her.  Minnah and her mother visited Sonia in her condo, and Minna and Sonia remained in touch thereafter.  When Sonia realized how remarkable Minna was, she suggested to Carrie Seidman, who does Sunday profiles for the Sarasota Herald-Tribune, as well as covering art and other subjects, that she write a profile of Minnah. Carrie immediately agreed, and the profile, which appeared on Sunday, March 15, 2016. Read the profile here.

On Feb. 29, 2016, the Veteran Feminists of America published an ebook, Our Fabulous Feminists, a biographical compendium of 95 Second Wave pioneers, one of whom is Sonia. Her bio can be found on page 291.

The book can be downloaded for free here.