Sonia Pressman Fuentes
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Eat First--You Don't Know What They'll Give You
The July/Aug. 2018 Newsletter of the National Conference of Women's Bar Associations stated as follows with regard to Sonia's memoir:
At a time when issues of immigration and asylum are much in the news, it is good to read the memoir of a woman lawyer who, because of a combination of advocacy by her brother and good fortune, was able to escape Nazi Germany at age 5, first to Belgium and then to the United States. Sonia Pressman Fuentes had a long and distinguished legal career. Notable achievements were serving as the first woman lawyer in the General Counsel's office at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission and co-founding the National Organization for Women. Her book Eat First--You Don't Know What They'll Give You: The Adventures of an Immigrant Family and Their Feminist Daughter is not about those achievements, however. Instead, it is a highly readable and often humorous account of the challenges of growing up as a refugee in America and embarking on a legal career when women lawyers or, indeed "career women," were very much the exception. It's a reminder that those who make great contributions to America sometimes are fleeing difficult circumstances without wealth, English skills, or important family connections, yet they do bring determination, resilience, and new perspectives. Sonia Pressman Fuentes now lives in Sarasota, Florida and continues to write and speak about women's issues.
"Imagine having changed the course of history. Sonia Pressman Fuentes. . . , one of the founders of the National Organization for Women (NOW) along with Betty Friedan and others, actually did . . . Her story could have been told in anger or bitterness, but that's not Fuentes' personal, or literary, style.
"It's my way of looking at life," she says. "My life wasn't funny. I just tell it that way."
-- Miami Magazine, Fall 2000
reviewing Fuentes' popular memoir,
Eat First -- You Don't Know What They'll Give You
In its October 2005 newsletter, Xlibris, the publisher of Eat First--You Don't Know What They'll Give You, congratulated Sonia Pressman Fuentes for being "[o]ne of the most successful Xlibris authors ever."
- A child who emigrated from Nazi Germany, arriving in New York with her parents and brother in 1934.
- First woman attorney in the Office of the General Counsel at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC).
- Co-founder of the National Organization for Women (NOW) and Federally Employed Women (FEW).
- Speaker on women's rights issues before audiences in the U.S., Europe and Asia.
- Included in What Happened to the Children Who Fled Nazi Persecution (2006), Feminists
Who Changed America, 1963-1975 (2006) and Women
of Achievement in Maryland History (2002).
- Author of the memoir: Eat First -- You Don't Know What They'll Give You, The Adventures of an Immigrant Family and Their Feminist Daughter.
Fuentes graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Cornell University in
1950 and first in her class at the University of Miami School
of Law in 1957. She had a 36-year career as an attorney and
executive with the federal government and national corporations.
She drafted many of the EEOC's initial landmark guidelines and
decisions. In addition to being one of the founders of NOW,
she was also a founder of the Women's Equity Action League (WEAL)
and Federally Employed Women (FEW).
Currently, she serves on the advisory committees of the Veteran Feminists of America (VFA) and The Education Center at Temple Beth Israel on Longboat Key, Florida.
On October 10, 1999, Ms. Fuentes was one of four recipients of the 1999
Women at Work Award given by Wider Opportunities for Women (WOW).
WOW, a nationwide organization based in Washington, DC, has
programs to help women and their families achieve economic self-sufficiency.
Fuentes received the award for her commitment to women's issues
and her leadership in the fields of law and business. Prior
awardees include Glenn Close, Jane Fonda, Katie Couric, and
Hillary Rodham Clinton.
walk in the footprints of Sonia Pressman Fuentes."
--Patricia Ireland, then-president, NOW
"Evoking a tear here and a chuckle there, with her heart-warming
wit and wisdom, Sonia Pressman Fuentes recounts the story of
a Jewish family, her family, from her grandparents' origin in
a shtettl in Poland right through her own career as a founder
of NOW and beyond." --Gus Tyler, columnist, contributing
editor, The Forward
"Sonia Pressman Fuentes played a major role in the birth
of the new women's movement and her tales of its early days
will delight historians and those who are curious about the
beginnings of this great social movement. Fuentes is a born
story-teller, with a particular knack for seeing the humorous
aspects of her life." --Dr. Bernice Sandler, Senior Scholar,
Women's Research and Education Institute
referred to you just the other day (as I frequently do) as one
of the `great, unsung heroes' of the women's and civil rights
movements. You single-handedly persuaded Roosevelt, Edelsberg,
me and others to take sex discrimination seriously which, without
you, we would not have done." --Charles T. Duncan, former
General Counsel, EEOC; former Corporation Counsel of the District
of Columbia; former Dean, Howard University School of Law
"As I really realized how bad off women were by the mid-70's, I was appalled, . . . . The champion of women at that time...was Sonia Pressman. She fought the airlines. She fought for the airline stewardesses...She was an EEOC attorney...But Sunny' Pressman...was small and she was dynamic, and don't get in her way. She was one of the gentlest souls you'd ever want to meet, but she was as tough as nails. She took on the airlines and the cause of the flight attendants. Sunny' Pressman is almost single-handedly responsible for flight attendants being married, for their being over 30 and working." -- Dorothy Howze, Making a Right a Reality: An Oral History of the Early Years of the EEOC, 1965-72 (EEOC, 1990).
Sonia was a charter member of the Veteran Feminists of America, which was founded in 1992 to tell the stories of the Second Wave of the feminist movement, from 1963 to 1982.
What Remains to be Done for Women's Rights?
Sonia is frequently asked what remains to be done for women's rights to be equal to those of men both in this country and abroad. She enumerated some of those issues in an article she wrote on the second wave of the women's movement: its origin, accomplishments, and the problems that remain--both in the U.S. and globally--that was published on June 14, 2015, on the website of the Institute for Science and Human Values. The article is entitled "The Women's Movement, Where It's Been, Where It's At and the Problems that Remain" and can be accessed here. The enumeration of problems to be dealt with both in the U.S. and the world runs from pages 17 though 36.
Profile of 15-year-old feminist activist, Minnah Stein, in the Sarasota Herald-Tribune on May 15, 2016, which Sonia arranged.
In early 2016, Sonia received an email from a Sarasota woman of 15, Minnah Stein, who'd learned about Sonia from the friend of a friend. Minnah wrote that she couldn't believe Sonia was in Sarasota where she lived and wanted to meet her. Minnah and her mother visited Sonia in her condo, and Minnah and Sonia remained in touch thereafter. When Sonia realized how remarkable Minnah was, she suggested to Carrie Seidman, who then wrote Sunday profiles for the Sarasota Herald-Tribune, and covered art and other subjects, that she write a profile of Minnah. Carrie immediately agreed, and the profile appeared on Sunday, March 15, 2016.
On Feb. 29, 2016, the Veteran Feminists of America published an ebook, Our Fabulous Feminists, a biographical compendium of 95 Second Wave pioneers, one of whom is Sonia. Her bio can be found on page 291.
The book can be downloaded for free here.